This weekend, I went to an amazing wedding. I loved so many details about it: the outdoor reception, the doors all along the side of the chapel being open so that there was a fresh air element, the bride showing up in a horse and carriage, but this post isn't about that. It's about the music. I loved it. I danced for roughly 90% of the wedding. And two very interesting things happened.
1. The DJ didn't annoy me. He really didn't talk much at all; he didn't try to make jokes; he didn't improvise; he just did his job and played good tunes.
2. I witnessed my first anniversary dance. At first, the DJ asked all married couples to get on the dance floor. Then, one by one, he asked couples to leave. He started with those married for one year, then five, then ten, etc... until two couples remained - both of whom had been married for almost 40 years.
I loved this idea. Mainly because watching these couples (especially those who have been married for more than half of their lives) interact with one another was awe-inspiring. I think this is a great tradition, and I have heard rumors that some people (instead of doing a bouquet toss) give their bouquet to the couple that has been married for the longest amount of time.