This weekend I had the great fortune to be invited to my first small, intimate wedding. I loved it. I wasn't granted the "and guest" gesture (which was a-okay with the BF) because the bride was only able to invite 5 friends from college, one of whom was not a friend from college but the husband of a friend from school. The scene:
Location: A family friend's home
Dress: Champagne bridesmaids dress from a department store (that was gorgeous and flattering)
Ceremony: 3 minutes, most of which were made up of readings
The bridal party: n/a
Food/drinks: 2 magnums of red, 2 of white, Shiner and Miller Lite + The Burger Man grilling outside
Number of attendees: 36
Cake: n/a - there was a cookie cake and cookies passed around
Favors: n/a
The money saved is great, but the time the couple was able to spend with the attendees was phenomenal. I hope I am able to someday incorporate some of the joy and spirit that was present on this day.